Hi, I’m Enzo
Until my 30s, I lived a life constantly chasing more things—more money, more clothes, more friends and relationships. I genuinely believed that attaining “more” would make me happier, but I realized that it didn’t. Looking back, what truly brought me joy were always the moments and memories I shared with the people who mattered most to me. That’s when I decided to prioritize moments over matter.
To spark that change, I started asking myself some big questions. Is it wrong to prioritize certain friends over others? Am I “settling” by not chasing a better job, car, clothes, and salary? How can I be content with what I already have? Thinking through these questions has helped me learn more about myself and has guided me in making small realignments in my life. And even though I made progress, I know that there are still so many more questions to explore.
That’s where this blog comes in.
This Space is for…
This space is a personal reflection of the questions I ask myself.
At the start of each month, I will pose a “Question of the Month” centered around the principles of simple living. These topics might cover anything from health and wellness, to finances, friendships, minimalism, or even career choices—always though, through a lens of simplifying. Then, at the end of the month, I’ll share a detailed reflection. This includes what I learned, any changes I put into practice, and hindsight tips for my own journey moving forward
You won’t find universal answers here, because there aren’t any for these questions. Instead, my hope is that by asking yourself these questions and reading about my own experiences, you’ll start to find your own answers over time. I want to be very clear: I’m not here to tell you how to live your life. Think of this space as a sounding board—a place for us to brainstorm thoughts and ideas about life together.
So, let’s start this journey together. Let’s choose moments over matter.
More About Me
When I am not writing here or deep in thought for this blog, I’m usually spending time with my wife, family, friends and our cat. For me, maximizing these moments leads to a rich life. In my alone time, I enjoy managing my family’s investments (I’m a finance nerd), searching for vintage clothes and furniture, or unwinding with a video game and a good cup of coffee.
FAQs
What is simple living?
For us, simple living is a lifestyle choice about making space for what truly matters and reducing distractions from everything else. What “truly matters” is unique for each person. If you’re still figuring that out right now, I hope this space helps you find your way.
How often do you post?
I post two times a month. Early in the month, I will post the “Question of the Month” to start our reflection. Then in the second half, I’ll post my detailed reflection on that question. Some reflections will take longer than others, but you can always expect two new posts each month.
Can I suggest a “Question of the Month”?
Yes! Please fill out the form in the Contact page to make any suggestions.
What does Moments Over Matter mean?
For me, Moments Over Matter is all about my philosophy of prioritizing experiences and meaningful connections over accumulating more stuff. It’s about intentionally investing in the moments that truly make life rich.
Is there a community I can join?
Right now, I do not have another platform that forms a more hands-on community, such as Discord or Patreon. This is something I am contemplating starting based on interest.
Do you offer coaching or services?
Right now, I do not offer any coaching or services.